Saturday, August 30, 2014

Why (and How) My Sister and I are Writing a Novel

A little more than three years ago, shortly after our dear Aunt Delores Bakke passed away, my sisters Cindi, Rebecca and Diana were together helping sort through Auntie Dottie's photos. We mused over the many details of her life that we had missed, being small children when she was a young adult. We marveled at the meticulousness of her photo albums and the careful notes she made about most of the photos. Delores had no children--just many, many nieces and nephews--but there was no one to keep and cherish her memories the way a son or daughter would do.

We began our research and writing by immersing ourselves
in the ambience of a (not too) posh motel in Warren, MN,
spending days writing in Melody's Diner and hanging out
at the old Gander/Olson farm to get the feel of early farm life.
Something about her passing triggered deep thoughts about of the meanings of our own lives and caused us to stop and think about many of life's questions. What will happen to all of our "stuff"? Who will care about the mementos we leave? What about our valuables? Will they get into the hands of our loved ones or end up lost or stolen? Probably most importantly--will we be remembered?

None of us--the sisters--has ever written and published anything of substance, though we all are creative in a variety of ways. Still, sitting down and writing anything of any length was not in our list of accomplishments. Yet, we started to brainstorm about what we could, should or would like to write. First we came up with a novel idea that centered around our aunt and her life. Somehow--and maybe that will be our second book :)--we moved on to an historic novel loosely set in the Grand Forks/East Grand Forks area and a lot of fictictious characters (as all authors probably do) who are composites of ourselves and everyone we've ever known.

That's all I can tell you right now, for a lot of reasons but I can tell you this: If you have any notion to write a novel with anyone--do it. Cindi and I are the two who ended up taking on this challenge and whether we get an agent and publish the work in progress or whether we self-publish it--this is a very cool, very challenging and very bonding experience. Working in Google Docs on a Google Drive is so perfect and so fun. We can watch each others cursors moving in real time as we tackle the scenes and chapters! We can brainstorm and chat and Skype as needed. And more importantly we can encourage each other to keep going and to keep challenging ourselves to immerse ourselves in the characters and the scenes we are writing. I think it's broken new ground for us both as writers, as thinkers, as researchers and as sisters. (Once I figure out how to do it, she may want to co-blog here...hope so.)

Well...enough...I have a scene to write!

6 comments:

  1. So very excited for you and can't wait to read the finished product.
    Cousin Cherie:-)

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  2. Thanks, Cherie! And I hear your mom, my Aunt Eloise is a published author as well! Congrats to her. Guess it runs in the family :).

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  3. Woohoo! Go, Ms. Rich! I believe in you and can not wait to read the finished product and get your autograph!

    Happy Writings!

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  4. Estuve viendo varias de las entradas del blog y me dio curiosidad por saber la génesis del mismo, por eso llegué a esta primera de la serie: valió la pena con creces, es emotiva e inspiradora.
    Me disculpo por escribirte en castellano, pero expresarme en inglés me llevaría muuuuucho más tiempo y seguramente no reflejaría de igual forma el valor que le doy a tus palabras. ¡Exitos!
    Mari Lamas, desde Argentina.

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  5. It's so wonderful to hear from you all the way in Argentina, Mari! Terry explained that he knows you through BLM. What a great connection.

    Writing the book has been one of the high points of my life--an unexpected pleasure, but very hard work. Now that the book is done and we're working on editing and sending out queries, I miss the writing process. It's like my world in the book is gone. I'm too busy getting ready for a family event to work on it right now, but I hope I can get back to in in a week or so.

    Thank you so much for your interest and I'm glad that the blog brought someone pleasure! Please keep reading and commenting!

    Sincerely,
    Patricia Gander Rich

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  6. Gracias a vos, Patricia, por responder tan cálidamente a mi comentario. Es un placer leerte.. ("Ways to avoid actually writing" es sencillamente desopilante, me sentí muy identificada :D)
    Me encantará "darme una vuelta" por tu blog cada tanto para ver las novedades, pero me permito sugerirte que consideres agregar la función "follow" en tu Facebook, eso facilitaría que muchas más personas -sin ser "amigos" estemos al tanto de lo que compartís públicamente.
    Muchos cariños,
    Mari L.

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